"Love,love,love"

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Love,love,love

     Can “love” really be defined or expalain?What is the first thing that pop in your head when you hear the word “love”?I know this questions exists in the mind of every human being including myself.Love a simple word compose of four letters that can mean lot of things to many different people around the world.Every people in this world has experience love,whether they were love or loved.They have their own definition,what love is and we don’t know where love exactly came from but the one thing that we know is we are nothing without love.Love exist in every human.It is the most powerfull emotion that we express.Some says that love is untamed force,when you try to control it,it will destroy us and when you try to imprison it,it enslave us.When you accept someone to be exactly as they are,without belief that they aren’t,that is love.Love is completely unconditional because when we truly love someone we can stop loving them even they broke our heart.They also say that love is selfless because we just love in the sake of love and we just love that person without any replacement.Love means to commit yourself without guarantee.People defined love based on their experience.Some people also say that love is the biggest mistake you’ve felt to a person that is not deserving,it is just a waste of time and a waste of effort,people say it because of their being bitterness.They can also say this because of their bad experience from their past that bring it with them.Either,the people that they love most broke their heart.Love can be painful and love can make you sad,lonely,mad,happy etc.Love don’t have any age limits.love can change us,can change any human being.People fall in love because they searching the missing part of their heart.We consider love as one of our strength and weaknesses.Everyone strives to attain love.Some spend their lives,dreaming for the day that they fall in love.Love is the key to open our heart,to look to the world without mask and to show people who really you are.It make person to become a whole entity and it makes you understand yourself.Love is everlasting and timeless.

      Love is not only exist in human but also in animals,some living and non-living things.Love is not just came from two human being with different gender but also love comes from our family,friends,relatives and most of all God.The love of our family is unconditional,it is endless,it is timeless and everlasting.The love of our parents is describe as our love at first sight and it is very strong because it is comes from our natural instinct and this love can also be felt between siblings.Friendship love know that you have someone to talk to especially about things that you could never tell your parents.God love is the most powerful love ever.The love of God is the true meaning of love because God  created love.God is love.The God love was sweet and marvelous,it is higher than the highest mountain,it is deeper than the deepest ocean and it is wider than the universe.This tell that the love of God is endless and it is not measurable.

        Love is not just give a positive effect in human it can also cause negative to humans.In reality,love is also one of the problem of every people like between husband and wife,between boyfriend and girlfriend,between children and their parents and also between you and your friends.It is the most common problem for teenagers.Teenagers keep on searching and spending their time in finding their Prince charming.They are quickly falling in love and because of this they will going to have a relationship and they will forsaken their studies because they just focus in their love life not on their studies and it will lead to a low grades.Because of having a low grades conflict between the child and his/her parents will occur.Love can also the problem between husband and wife.Love is built with trust,if this trust between the husband and wife will collapse many problem will occur like jealousness.Lack of love,third party,misunderstanding is a common problem between husband and wife,this problem is also because of love.This problem can cause the separation of the couple.Falling in love comes at the cost of losing your closest friend because romantic partners absorb time that would otherwise be invested in relationships.After all this this problems all about love,do you think love is also the solution to solve this problems?.Can lost love restored again?.What do you think is the best way to restored lost love?Back when I was grade 10,I also fall in love with one of my friend.I keep that feeling secretly so that our closeness will remain but suddenly I tell that secret to my friends because of that my friends teasing me to my crush.My secret spread to our room,my friend know that I have a crush on him.Month past,my feeling remain,I heard that my crush have a crush on my bestfriend.I feel very sad and hopeless cause I know that my bestfriend also have feeling on him.Even I feel very bad about what I heard I choose to be happy,I choose to let go my feeling and choose my bestfriend cause I love her and I realize that this not the right time to fall in love and I realize that we should not hurry in finding our true because true love will find us and we should not lost our true friends because now a day it is hard to find true friends.For all the problem about love I think love is also the solution.Lost love can also restored again by building a new wall of love,trust and hope.

       Love is truly our strength but it is also our weakness.Love is not just a fairy tale with no negative manifestation.It has two side,the black and the white.Maybe the end of one is the beginning of others.The truth is love is difficult to define.Love hold people together in the way to help and care each other.Stay in love,get out of the world of bitterness and hated.Stand firm to love because the true son and daughter of God,Standing firm to love.Love rejects offens.Don’t live to the world of bitterness and hated learn how to love.Love your enemies.Love don’t keep record of wrong.Love must not grow cold.Whoever does not love,does not know God because “God is Love”.“Be loved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who I loves is born of God and knows God.He who does not love does not know God, for God is love”.-1 john 4:7-8