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Love,love,love
Can “love” really be defined or expalain?What
is the first thing that pop in your head when you hear the word “love”?I know
this questions exists in the mind of every human being including myself.Love a
simple word compose of four letters that can mean lot of things to many
different people around the world.Every people in this world has experience love,whether
they were love or loved.They have their own definition,what love is and we
don’t know where love exactly came from but the one thing that we know is we
are nothing without love.Love exist in every human.It is the most powerfull
emotion that we express.Some says that love is untamed force,when you try to
control it,it will destroy us and when you try to imprison it,it enslave
us.When you accept someone to be exactly as they are,without belief that they
aren’t,that is love.Love is completely unconditional because when we truly love
someone we can stop loving them even they broke our heart.They also say that
love is selfless because we just love in the sake of love and we just love that
person without any replacement.Love means to commit yourself without
guarantee.People defined love based on their experience.Some people also say
that love is the biggest mistake you’ve felt to a person that is not
deserving,it is just a waste of time and a waste of effort,people say it
because of their being bitterness.They can also say this because of their bad
experience from their past that bring it with them.Either,the people that they
love most broke their heart.Love can be painful and love can make you
sad,lonely,mad,happy etc.Love don’t have any age limits.love can change us,can
change any human being.People fall in love because they searching the missing
part of their heart.We consider love as one of our strength and
weaknesses.Everyone strives to attain love.Some spend their lives,dreaming for
the day that they fall in love.Love is the key to open our heart,to look to the
world without mask and to show people who really you are.It make person to
become a whole entity and it makes you understand yourself.Love is everlasting
and timeless.
Love
is not only exist in human but also in animals,some living and non-living
things.Love is not just came from two human being with different gender but
also love comes from our family,friends,relatives and most of all God.The love
of our family is unconditional,it is endless,it is timeless and everlasting.The
love of our parents is describe as our love at first sight and it is very
strong because it is comes from our natural instinct and this love can also be
felt between siblings.Friendship love know that you have someone to talk to
especially about things that you could never tell your parents.God love is the
most powerful love ever.The love of God is the true meaning of love because God
created love.God is love.The God love
was sweet and marvelous,it is higher than the highest mountain,it is deeper
than the deepest ocean and it is wider than the universe.This tell that the
love of God is endless and it is not measurable.
Love is not just give a positive effect in
human it can also cause negative to humans.In reality,love is also one of the
problem of every people like between husband and wife,between boyfriend and
girlfriend,between children and their parents and also between you and your
friends.It is the most common problem for teenagers.Teenagers keep on searching
and spending their time in finding their Prince charming.They are quickly
falling in love and because of this they will going to have a relationship and
they will forsaken their studies because they just focus in their love life not
on their studies and it will lead to a low grades.Because of having a low
grades conflict between the child and his/her parents will occur.Love can also
the problem between husband and wife.Love is built with trust,if this trust
between the husband and wife will collapse many problem will occur like
jealousness.Lack of love,third party,misunderstanding is a common problem
between husband and wife,this problem is also because of love.This problem can
cause the separation of the couple.Falling in love comes at the cost of losing
your closest friend because romantic partners absorb time that would otherwise
be invested in relationships.After all this this problems all about love,do you
think love is also the solution to solve this problems?.Can lost love restored
again?.What do you think is the best way to restored lost love?Back when I was
grade 10,I also fall in love with one of my friend.I keep that feeling secretly
so that our closeness will remain but suddenly I tell that secret to my friends
because of that my friends teasing me to my crush.My secret spread to our
room,my friend know that I have a crush on him.Month past,my feeling remain,I
heard that my crush have a crush on my bestfriend.I feel very sad and hopeless cause
I know that my bestfriend also have feeling on him.Even I feel very bad about what I heard I choose to be
happy,I choose to let go my feeling and choose my bestfriend cause I love her
and I realize that this not the right time to fall in love and I realize that we
should not hurry in finding our true because true love will find us and we
should not lost our true friends because now a day it is hard to find true
friends.For all the problem about love I think love is also the solution.Lost love
can also restored again by building a new wall of love,trust and hope.
Love is truly our strength but it is also our weakness.Love is not just
a fairy tale with no negative manifestation.It has two side,the black and the
white.Maybe the end of one is the beginning of others.The truth is love is
difficult to define.Love hold people together in the way to help and care each
other.Stay in love,get out of the world of bitterness and hated.Stand firm to
love because the true son and daughter of God,Standing firm to love.Love
rejects offens.Don’t live to the world of bitterness and hated learn how to
love.Love your enemies.Love don’t keep record of wrong.Love must not grow
cold.Whoever does not love,does not know God because “God is Love”.“Be loved,
let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who I loves is born
of God and knows God.He who does not love does not know God, for God is love”.-1
john 4:7-8